HE is the problem

When a woman learns that her husband has a mistress, it is one of the most devastating moments in her life!
Emotions are raw, and insecurities are high.
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“It feels like I have been stabbed in the heart.”
“I am numb inside.”
“I am completely broken.”
“Shattered, just shattered.”
“My whole world feels like it has come crashing down at my feet.”
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And then the rage sets in, targeting the mistress.
“I hate her and what she has done to my family!”
“She is a gold-digging slut!”
“I will punch that bitch if she ever comes near me!”
“I am going to destroy her, so she will never get a job in this industry again!”
“She is a fucking home-wrecking, heartless bitch!”
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And the husband is just a man, who could not resist the temptress...
Really?!!!
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Let’s get real here!
This is a man, who has consciously pursued another woman.

He is like the skipper of a powerful motorboat, darting effortlessly through the waves, leaving a massive wake behind him.

And in that wake, we find two women, whose lives have been altered forever.
One is looked upon with pity and is shamed.
The other is labelled a villain and is shamed.
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And the skipper powers on, into the sunset, with a glint in his eye, and a boosted ego, because now he has two women fighting over him. Yes, he feels powerful, and doesn’t give a shit about anybody but himself.
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Neither of these two women deserve this, and he certainly doesn’t deserve to have either of them.

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